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a guide

i just touched base from watching the flick: "a guide to recognizing your saints." i sit with the resonance i didn't expect to experience. the crux of the film is a boy's relationship with his father and the world that is falling apart around them. dramatically portrayed, i was brought to tears. at the peak of the film the obvious hit me. i felt the sulphuric taste of what my father did, or didn't do, sit on my bottom lip.

absenteeism is the word that emerges amongst all others when i think of my father. i once asked him why he left us. he told me some reason involving his tour with the military. i accepted it then, because we were there in a car; my arm was vulnerable in that damp car, not his. i attempted to wrap my mind around it then but i can't now. for a father to abandon the son he's created must involve more than exploits in south korea. i could accept, fear, impotence, hatred or simply lack of love but not knee high boots and fatigue.

dito stood in the foyer of his building and decided to walk. walk away from the sordid life and the emotional paralyzed father that was all smeared over it. i listened to him then.


broken homes aren't a rarity, but they should be.


Hip-Hope Sparrow said...

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Heidi on Vashon said...

I think about this topic. When I left the X, he wanted full custody. There was no way that was going to happen since I don't agree with his choices and habits, however, he has the boys just more than half the week, because it is important at their age to have a male present in their formative 8-12-year-old-states. Sometimes I wonder if that was the right decision, one made under a very stressful set of curcumstances. I am holding my breath.